Saturday, December 22, 2012

Merry Christmas to ALL 2012


December 2012

Merry Christmas to ALL!

Our leap of faith started the day we signed the contract to build our new house in Manteo, North Carolina.  This December is our 1st anniversary living in that house.  The next leap of faith will be December 2013 when Jay officially retires from Erie Insurance; a long awaited day! 

This past year I have been teaching basic skills to adults working on their GED’s at the local college.  In January I will kick off a new offering at the college called ‘What It Takes.’  I will be working with unemployed adults to help them develop the soft skills (such as work ethic, attendance, teamwork, etc.)  one needs to be successful.   Believe it or not, many employers find new employees don’t always understand the importance of these needed traits. 

This past year I got out the paints and brushes and worked to develop a new painting style  – abstract expressionism (new for me).  I’ve connected with the local Art Council and I hope to be able to exhibit some work in their gallery next year.  Also I continue to put pen to paper and write.

Jay and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary this year (my head is still spinning!).  I find that sometimes we finish each other’s sentences and carry on a continuous conversation without missing a beat.  In our early years together, we would get frustrated because we didn’t always understand each other.  After 25 years, we get frustrated because we do!! 

I have great wealth that has nothing to do with dollars:  a wonderful husband, precious grandchildren, and outstanding adult children with wonderful loving families.  And of course, we have Ruby and Lady to watch and love.

At the end of each day during our holiday season, Jay and I dim the lights, Jay pours a glass of wine, and we sit next to the Christmas tree and listen to soft Christmas music playing in the background.  It is a time to reflect on the past year and the events that took place: a summer family get-together at our house – lots of beach time and plenty of sand; visits from Jay’s mom, visits from old friends and new friends; time spent planting and tending our gardens (which were magnificent); ballgames with Todd & Leesa, Chip and Jay spending good father/son time together; special grandparent day visits to Lizzie’s classroom; dance recitals, award ceremonies at Cape Henry High School; celebration of Annalise’s dream come true of attending college in Boston next fall; cold early Saturday morning soccer games at Cape Henry; Jay working out in HIS workout room;  a new motorcycle with Jay’s name on it sitting in the garage; Lisa’s published book for Nurses; Harriet’s published novel that is #3 on the NYT best seller list; Barack Obama winning a 2nd term (can’t forget that!).

 Life goes on, time marches by.  Jay and I look forward to the New Year that will be full of things that have never been.





We wish you good health, contentment, and enjoyment of family and friends in the New Year.  

Paula & Jay




1 comment:

  1. What a wonderful year! I am so glad you are doing well! Give our love to Uncle Jay. I am looking forward to seeing your art soon!

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